You could also contact your local council or ring the Age UK helpline on For questions or problems Here are some quick and easy recipes for delicious winter-warming meals. Pause between sentences and questions to give them chance to digest the information.
Watch out for s of winter illness Older people are particularly vulnerable during the winter as cold weather increases their risk of illnesses, such as coldscoughsfluheart attacksstrokesbreathing problems and hypothermia a dangerous fall in body temperature. Keep pictures to a reasonable size, no offensive pictures or language, use the "exit" button when leaving and, above all, have respect for other chatters.
Start a conversation It's not always easy to know who or how to help.
Tough conversations with aging loved ones
Share your time Volunteer for organisations that support older people. Your contribution could be as simple as a weekly telephone call to an isolated older person, or extend to regular home visits for a chat and to help with shopping and so on, driving an elderly person to a social event, or even hosting coffee mornings for groups of elderly people. If you're worried, ask if there's a relative or close friend you can phone, or call their doctor or NHS But a simple friendly chat or phone call can make all the difference, too.
As well as being practical, it's a nice way to share your time with a neighbour.
Mind's guide on how to cope with loneliness has advice on how to help someone you know who's lonely. These often offer "befriending" schemes for isolated elderly people, and rely on volunteers for one-to-one contact as a telephone "buddy", visitor or driver, or hosting social events for groups.
The Casserole Olf is a project that connects people who like to cook and are happy to share an extra portion of a delicious home-cooked meal with older neighbours living close by who could really benefit from a hot, cooked meal. It's likely to boost your self-esteem and sense of purpose. And allow a little extra time for them to respond — don't hurry them.
Read about 10 winter illnesses that are triggered or worsened by cold weather. Read about ways to keep warm and well.
Contact the Elderly holds monthly Sunday afternoon tea parties for overs and needs volunteer drivers and hosts. A good start is simply to stop and talk to an elderly neighbour if you pass them on the street. If you think an older person may have trouble hearing or has memory problems, make sure to speak clearly but don't shout!
Help with household tasks Getting older can make it hard to tackle even simple jobs around the house. Older people often really appreciate any offer of help with basic chores such as taking out the rubbish, changing light bulbs, fastening sash windows, clearing snow off the path, putting up pictures, and so on. This is a privately owned chat room with just a few guidelines for the comfort and enjoyment of our members.
Offer practical help Do you know an older person who lives alone, rarely leaves the house, has recently suffered a bereavement, is in poor health, disabled, has sight or hearing loss, or doesn't seem to have close family living nearby?
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Volunteering for an organisation that supports peoplw people is a key way of helping a lonely or socially isolated older person. The Silver Line needs people to help man this new helpline for older people.
Look out for s of serious illness, such as drowsiness, slurred speech and the person not complaining of feeling cold even in a bitterly cold room. And helping chat with old people takes your mind off your own problems for a while. Back to Mental health and wellbeing Loneliness in the elderly: how to help There are lots of ways you can do your bit to help lonely or socially isolated elderly people in your community. Useful resources If you suspect your parents are lonely, read the When They Get Older website's loneliness guide.